Take the Good in Life and Reject the Rest
When was the last time you watched a bee as it busily went from flower to flower collecting the nectar and pollen that would become the life saving energy source for the larvae back at the hive. While some bees are happy to collect pollen from many different plants and flowers, others specialize in only collecting from certain species. The honey produced in the hives of these specialist bees is highly sought after for its unique qualities and flavors.
In
our life choices, we can be like the specialist honeybee, taking the good
things offered to us in life, and rejecting the rest that will potentially harm
us, or our quality of life. Learning to say no is a powerful tool that many of
us rarely, if ever use. There is nothing wrong with the pollens and nectar than
the specialist bees reject. They have the potential to produce delicious honey,
for the honeybees that are searching for a special type of pollen; they
represent imperfections and time wasting activity.
Learning
to reject or say no to what will hurt or harm us in the long term is the key to
reducing the amount of stress we carry each day and to feeling better about
ourselves, but also the choices we make. As we learn to reject the things that
will harm us, we are more inclined to accept the things that will help us.
Perhaps more importantly, we are able to learn to tell the difference between
the two.
How
can you tell the difference between what to accept and what to reject to help
you stay stress free? Most of us know instinctively what is going to cause us
distress. These things never be accepted and
must be rejected from our life, but what of those things that will cause
us stress but not distress? Can we trust our instincts with them?
Growing
through stress is not a bad thing and sometimes we do need to move outside of
our comfort zone to achieve progress in our life. The key to knowing what will
produce good stress and what will produce negative stress is to have a life
plan and only accepting those things that contribute to our life plan. Saying
no to other things, helps keep us focused on our goals and thinking positively
about our life experiences.
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