How to Stay Unaffected from Negative Thoughts of People
The
world fills with both types of people – negative thinking people as well as
positive thinking people. Negative thinking people are around every corner of
the world looking forward to ruin your day. These pessimistic people derive
satisfaction from indulging an optimistic person into negative thoughts.
Therefore, it is always advisable to stay unaffected by the words of these
pessimists. Here are few ways to help you out.
Often
negative–minded people will come to you first when you are in a turbid
situation. They come and make all the possible negative comments to put the
fear into you. Simply, they derive satisfaction out of this. Therefore, do not
take their words into your head. Instead, appear polite to them and make them
feel that you are not moved by the situation. However, if their words can move
you once, then you are likely to suffer from negativity and depression.
Therefore, do not lose your decision-making capabilities.
Taking
things personally is a major mistake. Negative people always does things
deliberately to make you upset. In reality, they are unhappy in their lives;
therefore, they see your life in the same way as theirs. The best way to deal
with these people is not to pay any attention to their comments. Just let them
speak and you put your ear to some other task.
Another
way to deal with negative people and remain unaffected by them is to do them an
equal amount of good for all the negative things they do for you. In fact, doing
this will not only make them jealous, but also you will feel satisfied for the
good you have done to some people. At least, you can write on your list every
day some amount of good you have done. You good may make them realize someday
and make them a positive person.
Confront
them and say them that their negative thoughts and comments make people more
depressed in times of negativity. They may already know this about themselves,
but may not have heard others telling them. Therefore, confronting them will
shake their confidence and make them rethink about their attitude.
Demonstrating their attitude and letting them know how mean they are may make
them change their attitude a little.
Over
and above, if you are optimistic, it is not advisable to stay away from
pessimistic people, but to remain unaffected by the doings or words of
pessimistic people. This will show the real optimism in you.
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